Tuesday 3/17
Tyson drove up from his mother's house to visit the Retreat Center. After about 5 hours on the road, he finally arrived around 2:30pm, just in time for mountain running. It was nice to see him again. Being one of a few friends from high school that I keep in contact with, I was glad when he told me he was interested in visiting. Even after three years of not hanging out with him, it didn't seem like much had changed. Well, nothing much except the fact that he seemed to have changed into a giant. When I went to go pick him up at the Miranda exit, I got out of the car to greet him and right as a stepped down, BOOM! All of a sudden I found myself looking up a good three or four inches at him. Weird. Last I remembered, we were the same height. So.. either he grew or I shrunk :\ Anyways, his arrival was almost perfect timing for the beginning of our training. We drove up the mountain, got out of our cars, changed real quick, and headed down to catch up with everybody else. Tyson spent the rest of the afternoon training with us in all activities, then sat through lecture with us too. At night, before sleeping, we stayed up a bit and talked about the past and then how each others lives were going. So much as changed. It seems as if neither of us remember our high school days very well. However, there were still lots of great stories and events to be remembered and reminded of.
Wednesday 3/18
Shifu asked Tyson the night before if he wanted to be treated as a guest or as one of us. Tyson answered enthusiastically, "one of them!" Which meant punishment for being late for meditation. 6am mediation, Tyson. That means set your alarm for 5:50 at the latest. NOT 6:50! Luckily you have friends like me who don't want to see you punished and will wake you up :P
After meditation was tumbling practice. When Shifu asked us to practice kip ups, I was impressed to see that Tyson was still able to do them. About four years ago, he had spent two nonstop hours in his basement learning how to do them. I had a moment of pride to see he hadn't lost the ability. What impressed me more was later on in Chinese class though. He was able to quickly read through a short story Shifu gave him. I guess studying Chinese for two and a half years and spending a semester in China really paid off.
After lunch and after our break, Shifu allowed us to run the path around the property instead of the regular "up the mountain" road. Patrick and Farai (apparently that's how it's spelled) decided to join us. So, at 2:30, we packed a couple knives and a few machetes and started our adventure. Yes, adventure. We had decided midway through the run that we wanted to explore the property a little more to search for a good spot for a shooting range. So, with Tyson leading the way and machetes in our hands, we tread through what seemed like miles and miles of vast "jungle" land. We ended up spotting three potential locations, some bear poop, and a couple of old beer cans which had probably been left behind by the people there before us.
After our hike, Tyson cleaned up and said his goodbyes, promising to be back in the future sometime. I hope so. I feel bad for not have taken a picture of his visit. Next time! :)
Thursday 3/19
My good mood from Tyson's visit was soon shattered the next morning by some very upsetting news. I received an email from my mom stating one of her best friends had passed away the night before. I was saddened when I heard this because our two families were very close and she was like another mother to me. In my parent's group of friends, there are a number of families that have stuck together for many years. So, when I grew up, it seemed as if I didn't just have one mother, but 5 or 6. So needless to say, when I had problems, advice or nagging didn't come once, but many times.
The events of Wednesday night got me thinking. What if my parents were to get ill while I was here at the Retreat Center? I hope I would not have to stop my training, but I would have to go home to take care of them. As much as I don't like to think about it, I know there would be no hesitation in leaving the program of these events were to come. After twenty-one years of taking care of me and putting up with my crap, it would be the least I could do, right? I also began to think. I am growing older, but so are they. Is it fair for me to be here? I feel that I should be spending time with them as well, as their lives could end suddenly. But then I thought, "no." They wouldn't want me to sacrifice a part of my life for them. What makes them happy is to see me be able to grow up and mature on my own.
So, thank you. Mom and dad. For understanding and supporting me for the past, for now, and for the future.
Friday 3/20
First day of Spring! Also, first complete year of being here! Last March, Patrick and I arrived at the Retreat Center to begin our testing. It's weird to look back and see how far we have come. It feels even more weird to realize that a whole year has gone by. It seems as if only a couple of months passed. Time is a funny thing.
Some stuff
- Scott can no longer make it to the Retreat Center. Oh well... hopefully he'll be able to come out some time in the near future :)
- I got an email from Mr. Gene Ching from Kung Fu Tai Chi Magazine. Apparently my first article should be out soon. May/June edition?
- Shifu started talking about building a new training facility. He plans on building it outdoors. It will have a roof so that we can practice there when it rains as well. He wants it to be large enough for a floor area (for forms) and for bag area. So.. we're currently looking for donors. Ricardo is working on making a 3D model of it to be posted on the YMAA website. Hopefully we will receive enough funds for it soon (hint hint). Shifu says there may be a plaque posted on the side of the training area with the names of donors.
- New candidates will be coming in April. I think there's one from Germany coming on the 5th and another from Italy on the 15th or so.
- I think Craig and Rii will be coming at the end of April sometime to help us with video production. We currently have two projects. Taijiquan Applications and Fundamental Conditioning.
- My mom coming at the beginning of May to teach us Chinese and how to prepare food/cook for large groups (aka seminar people).

